The Flower of Maryam

Amazing nature that helps with birth and other uses. This is incredible and I have never heard of it before.
As far as I am concerned I am done having babies…plenty busy with the 5 i have ūüôā
But should I ever have another….I will definitely look into using this plant.

Baraka Birth

Labor begins, and the midwife places a small dry twiggy rosette in a bowl of warm water, near the mother. Labor continues, the mother gently perspires, her cervix is softening and opening, and as it does, the ball of twigs begins to soften and expand into a woody flower. She takes a sip of the medicinal water, and, breathing deeply, she watches as the ball fully blossoms. Soon enough, she’s ready to push…

The ‚Äúflower‚ÄĚ in its tumbleweed form.

The Flower of Maryam (Anastatica hierochuntica) is a small shrub collected across North Africa, Saudi Arabia, Iran, and Pakistan, and among its most popular medicinal uses is its application for childbirth. Whether its medicinal properties encourage dilation, or if it’s a powerful visualization tool for mothers, traditional midwives have used the Flower of Maryam with their laboring mothers for hundreds of years. A quick glance at its names (below)…

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Visits…keeping the tradition

There are some of the traditions of my husbands culture that I so adore and hope my children will also adopt and carry on. One of these is visiting guests. If someone from out of town visits, if you know them personally or know their family, you should stop by for a visit.

Today I made such a visit to a family friend. One whom in the years since we first knew them now has ties to us thru marriage also. Sometimes in Kurdish culture that’s how it goes, you know a family and eventually, somewhere down the road, someone gets married to someone else and they become not only a family friend but part of the big extended family.

This friend married into a family in Dallas that is from my husbands village, Bigdawda. She was back in Nashville visiting her mother, who I really like and has mutual feelings for me. I don’t know what it is, but I could spend hours with the elderly, maybe its their wisdom, maybe its they don’t care about the trivial things anymore, not sure exactly, but I always enjoy visits to see them.
She had gotten several sets of Kurdish clothes made for her sister in law who is getting married next month. Beautiful fabrics in shades of purple and turquoise, some embellished with sequins and others with bead work…all needing to be delicately hand sewn.

We sipped tea and ate Kada (Kurdish pastries) and chatted, catching up on each others families.

As I rose to go, her mother told me to go see their new deck. She then told her husband to go fetch me some Radish leaves and okra from their garden. Knowing it would make her happy, I accepted the gracious offering and went to explore the deck while he picked them from the garden.
He came back with a bag full of veggies and as I turned to leave, she told me, don’t forget this bag of Kada too.
Her daughter and I said our goodbyes, wishing safe travels, and giving our greetings to extended family.
“Tell them I said hello and I ask after all of them” I said
She smiled and said “They all say hello and tell them we are sick so they visit us in Dallas”
At this we both laughed.

It was a good visit. A good tradition.

A tradition that is almost dying out if we do not carry it on.


“Breath in slower…1…2…3…breathe out…1…2…3…good…he will mirror you, if your anxiety heightens so will his…” the therapist told me.

We were trying to calm my youngest son down. He was having a meltdown in the middle of his therapy session, Currently, he was self soothing in the corner, with his face rubbing up against the scarf of the therapist hung on the back of the door.

“I can’t handle it, I can’t handle it” he kept repeating.

And then he just started to cry and cry and cry

No matter what I was saying, he wasn’t getting any of it, totally in his own world.

I had tried to get through to him, and as I did, my tone got to a higher pitch without me realizing it, it was the anxiety building in me. I wanted him to calm down. I was getting anxious with how to deal with it. To be honest, I didn’t want to be there anymore cause it was rough emotionally to handle these sessions. But I knew that it was good for him, that he was gonna benefit from it. So that’s why I went. At the end of the day I want him to be able to be the best him he can be.


And that’s when the therapist told me to breathe with her and also asked him to breathe with us as well. She suggested that if I did it too it would help him to also mirror my actions and calm down.

So then I thought about it. That’s it, the key to helping him, to being the best parent I can, is to actually be the best me.

I need to deal with my issues of anxiety and stress. And that’s not selfish to focus on myself. In fact, it’s the complete opposite.

Kari (Arum Stew)


Arum, called Kari in Kurdish is one food that may never have come into being.   You see the Arum plant is actually a poisonous plant.

This is a wild plant that grows during the winter months in shady and damp places. All parts of this plant are poisonous because of high levels of calcium oxalate crystals. If swallowed the calcium oxalate crystals penetrate and irritate cells which leads to the swelling and constriction of the throat, difficulty breathing and even death. This may not sound like an ideal plant to eat but that is exactly what some ethnic groups do, most notably the Bedouins, local Arabs and Kurds of the area.

One person recalls on their blog how they learned the art of gathering and cooking Kari:

When I first became interested in Kurdish cooking and their many kubba dumplings I naturally went to my grandmother because she was wise in the world of kubba. She told me of all the different kinds of kubba she used to make including one intriguing one called kubba kardi (made from the poisonous Arum plant).

‚ÄúHow do you make this kubba?‚ÄĚ, I asked but she waved me away and said,
‚ÄúDon‚Äôt mess with it, the leaves are poison! You have to learn from someone experienced.‚ÄĚ
Being a city girl my grandmother didn’t have access to the plant. So I called my Aunt and she said,
‚ÄúKeep away from it! You will poison yourself! Who ever heard of an American making kubba kardi?‚ÄĚ

When I first started cooking it as an American cooking Kurdish food, I was unaware of the poisonous nature of this plant. ¬†A couple times I remember tasting the cooking leaves and having my tongue tingle. ¬†I quickly learned the art of cooking Kari. And it is one of my favorite Kurdish foods. ¬†When the Aunties overseas ask me what I would like them to send me my reply is always “Send me some Kari please!” ūüôā

Kari (Arum Stew)


3-5 lbs Beef/Sheep bones with meat, cut up

2 Tbsp salt (1/2 Tbsp later added)

3 Cups Dried Arum

*8 cups cold water to soak Arum in

10 cups water

3 Tbsp Tahini

2 tsp Citric Acid

1 16oz can of Garbanzo Beans (drained)


  1. Take 3 cups dried arum, soak in 8 cups cold water for 2-3 hours (If using fresh Arum, double the amount of Arum and cut up)


  1. Add bones to pressure cooker…add 1 tbsp salt…rub into meat/bones. Drain Arum and add to pressure cooker. Add 1 tbsp salt and mix. Then add 3 Tbsp Tahini and 10 cups water.



  1. Close pressure cooker and heat on high till steaming. Then reduce heat to medium. Cook for 1 hour (if meat not tender cook for some additional time)
  2. Add 2 tsp Citric Acid and ¬Ĺ Tbsp salt (taste for salt/sour balance, if needed add a cup of water)
  3. Add Garbanzo beans and let simmer for 5-10mins more.


Best served with plain rice, bread, or Arum Rice.


February is Turner’s Syndrome Awareness month. And this week is Congenital Heart Defects Awareness week Feb 7-14. While many chd’s causes are unknown, some are due to having a syndrome. One syndrome that often has some sort of CHD associated with it is Turner’s syndrome. Turner’s syndrome only affects girls. Only 2 percent actually survive to birth. The chd’s they may have vary, with many having none at all. Here are the stories of some of them, including my daughter Sajda’s.

Sajda, 2 end of the month :)

Sajda, almost 2

Sajda has Pulmonary Atresia with VSD. She had open heart surgery at 5 days old to do a full repair, they closed her vsd and put in a conduit for her pulmonary artery. At first we only knew about her heart issues and only later did we find out through her genetic testing that she had Turner’s syndrome. She has the mosaic form, meaning some of her chromosomes are two XX and some are one X. So far the heart issues are the biggest thing we have had to deal with. She will need to see a cardiologist for life. She will need more surgeries and intervention down the road. But for now…she is a busy, thriving, trouble-making two year old :)…on the 24th that is.

Ivy, 2

Ivy, 2

Ivy was dx with Turners Syndrome at 16 weeks gestation, we suspected a heart defect, but it wasn’t confirmed until she was 2 days old, coarctation of aorta. She was transported to UCSF that day and had her repair at 4 days old. She currently see’s her cardiologist once a year and has a healthy functioning heart.

Juliana Grace Rose

Juliana Grace Rose, 20 months old

Juliana was born at 35.6 weeks on June 2, 2011 after surviving a cystic hygroma and hydrops in Utero. We knew she had turner syndrome but several fetal echos couldn’t distinguish what exact heart defects she had. The morning after she was born she had an echocardiogram and it was discovered she had coarctation of the aorta, hypo plastic arch, and a unicuspid aortic valve. She was immediately prepped for transfer to The University of Michigan, Motts Children’s hospital. At about 20 hrs of age she started declining rapidly and started going into heart failure. She had open heart surgery at 3.5 days old to repair her CoA, and fabricate a synthetic arch. She was hospitalized for 5 weeks. Her subsequent echos have discovered aortic stenosis as well as a dilated ascending aorta. However she is stable so she was recently cleared by cardiology to be seen every 6 months instead of 3! She is very funny, energetic, active, and playful. You would never know that she was born with heart defects. Our little miracle girl for sure!

Aubrey Lynn, 2

Aubrey Lynn, 2

One of a set of identical twins with mosaic Ts. At a day old we were told Aubrey had a bicuspid aortic valve, and that she wouldn’t hopefully need intervention until teens or even her twenties. ¬†People can go their whole lives without even knowing they have a BAV. At two months old we had her first follow up & learned that her heart would not follow the normal bicuspid aortic valve path. We were told that she had already developed a high moderate level of aortic stenosis and as a result of her heart having to pump extra hard she also had developed left ventricular hypertrophy. At four months old, her next follow up, the stenosis increased slightly and they saw a small hole that hadn’t finished closing yet. Her stenosis was at 65MmHg & he told us she would have balloon valvuplasty at 70MmHg. His only concern was that being as small as she was that her valve would start to regurgitate and need replaced after the balloon valvuplasty. He gave her another two months time to see if it changed. This was around the time we learned her twin also had TS, but her echo showed no cardiac abnormalities.
When Aubrey was six months old we learned that she had mild aortic root dilation, but thankfully no change in her stenosis. He bumped her to four months. At ten months old we learned that she had an extra left superior vena cava & that her aortic valve had begun to calcify, but again everything else remained stable.
At her last check up at two years old we found that her hole was almost completely closed, the size of the left side of her heart was going down, and that her stenosis had actually improved! She was now at 37 MmHg. There was no change in the aortic root dilation. At this appointment she was cleared for growth hormone therapy when her endo decides to begin them. We were told that would more than likely be this May. So far she is projected to be an end height of 4’4″ without GHT. Once those begin she will go back to cardio check ups every three months. We are very hopeful that she will remain stable and gain a few extra years before requiring a valve replacement. He said we may not make it to her double digits in age before needing a replacement, but I’m just grateful for the extra time before surgical intervention no matter how long that may be.
Lily Brigid

Lily Brigid, 16 months old

 Lily is 16 months old and has Classic Turner Syndrome. She was diagnosed with Turner Syndrome at 16 weeks in utero and they discovered possible heart defects at a fetal echocardiogram done at 24 weeks. At 31 weeks it was confirmed she had an aortic coarctation. She was born at 36 weeks 3 days, and after birth they decided to repair the coarc through a thoracotomy, at which time they also reconstructed the aortic arch, 2 days after she was born. She came home when she was 12 days old. Lily also has a bicuspid aortic valve and an abnormal mitral valve that at this time just require monitoring. At 4 months of age, she had a balloon dilation done to further correct the coarc. Now, she just requires monitoring by a cardiologist every 6 months, and is a happy-go-lucky little girl. She is so cheerful and such a joy to be around, and we are so thankful for our little miracle!
Teagan, 6 months old

Teagan, 6 months old

Teagan was diagnosed in utero with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome, a condition where the left side of the heart does not develop and does not work effectively. She has had two surgeries in a series of three, the Norwood and the Glenn.


Our Beautiful Butterflies -Take Two

******Reposting from http://www.fatlittlelegs.com *********

This post comes from Sarah, mother to Lily, a fellow TS mommy that hails from MN ūüôā¬†She writes about Turner’s syndrome on her blog. ¬†For the past two years she has done a piece featuring the faces of Turner’s Syndrome for TS Awareness Month in February and we were lucky enough to have Sajda included. ¬†Enjoy!



Our Beautiful Butterflies – Take Two


Last year I had an idea.¬† An idea to show the world¬†what Turner Syndrome looks like.¬† To date, it is and remains my most popular post ever.¬† A fact that I’m both amazed and proud of.¬†¬†

February is Turner Syndrome awareness month, and Lily and I wanted to do something to help spread awareness.  Awareness of what Turner Syndrome is.  Awareness to the just diagnosed, that this does not have to be a bad thing, and hope to the expecting mother, carrying a precious baby with Turner Syndrome, that this will be a journey that is worth any hardship.

The butterfly is the Turner Syndrome symbol. The TSSUS chose the butterfly because the butterfly is feminine yet strong, every butterfly is unique, and butterflies fly on their own which is our hope for our girls. I think it fits so well because butterflies may at first glance appear fragile, but are truly strong and beautiful, just like these girls!  

Over the past year I have learned to know many of these girl’s mothers, and some I have formed life-long friendships with.¬† And again, putting this post together this year, I have been moved to tears many times.¬† Last year I learned that Lily and I are not alone, this year I know we have an entire support system to lift us up whenever and wherever we need it.
My hope is that you’ll share this post as much as possible. Please post it to your facebook, tweet a link to it, email it to your family, friends, your local media. Alone I’m just a single blogger, but together we can make a difference!
So without further explanation here are our beautiful butterflies Р45chromosome princesses of all ages, they are many and varied,  they are miracles, our one percents!

Sajda – 23 months

Sajda is the youngest of 5 children. She has 4 older brothers, but she doesn’t let that slow her down!

She has Mosaic Turner’s Syndrome.¬†¬†She also has a congenital heart defect, Pulmonary Atresia with VSD. She had open heart surgery for it at 5 days old but is thriving right now. She will need another surgery in a couple years to replace her conduit.¬†¬†She is learning to sign some words, along with learning to speak some words in Kurdish and English.¬†¬†Her favorite toy is her baby dolls.¬†¬†She continues to be a source of joy to everyone she meets. And is rarely without a smile.

 Kessleigh Р2 years

Kessleigh was diagnosed at birth. Unfortunately she has a bad immune system and has been hospitalized 9 times for various sicknesses. She started growth hormones just this past January! Despite being tiny, she appears normal and happy!


 Mya Р19 months 

Mya was diagnosed in utero via amnio which was performed due to concerns with blood tests and ultrasounds. Mya has had 2 eye surgeries to correct tear duct issues, and still needs at least 1 more. She has also had 2 ear surgeries due to chronic ear infections, which she is still battling. She started growth hormones back in July and is growing well with the extra help! Mya is happy, loving, caring, extremely smart and slightly wild, thanks to four older brothers. Her mother says, “We adore our little miracle more than words can express and can not wait to see what is in store for our future.”

Ainsley and Aubrey – 2

Ainsley and Aubrey are identical twins with mosaic Turner Syndrome. Smart, funny, feisty, and always on the go.¬† They love singing, dancing, playing at park, and reading stories. Their mother comments, “I’ve said it before and I’ll always say it they may be tiny but they are definitely mighty! They are just amazing and bring us all so much joy!”

Juliana Grace Rose – 19 months

Juliana Grace Rose was born 6-2-11 after a very complicated pregnancy in which are parents were told she would never survive. She had open heart surgery at 3 days old but is doing fantastic now. She is funny, energetic and is the light of her parent’s life. She absolutely adores her big brother Will and is fascinated by her new baby sister. She is already a little mother herself! She loves “Baby Signing Time” movies and is learning all the signs. Her mother says, “I can’t imagine our lives without our little miracle girl!”

Brooke – 6

Brooke was diagnosed at 22 months with Turner Syndrome and¬†Systemic onset Juvenile Idiopathic Arthritis.¬† When she was born her parents had no idea she had Turner Syndrome. She did not show any signs or have any outward appearances of anything being wrong. Looking back, she had a few signs:¬†¬†she was small, had chronic ear infections and had texture aversion and could not handle anything with texture without gagging and often times vomiting. However, her parents did not find out about the Turner Syndrome until she became deathly ill with Systemic onset Juvenile Arthritis, an autoimmune disorder. Cancer had to be ruled out so a bone marrow aspiration was done. That is how they found out about the Turner Syndrome.¬†¬† Her mom says, “She is the light of our lives.”¬† She enjoys ballet and loves her kitten Bella.¬†


 Eliana Grace Р2

Eliana, whose name is Hebrew and means “My God has answered” has Classic Turner Syndrome. It has been confirmed she is missing one X chromosome from every cell of her DNA. She was born with a mild heart defect–biscuspid aortic valve–but currently is experiencing no issues. Eliana is tiny for her age, but is mightily equipped with her quick wit, strong sense of humor, and advanced verbal skills. Her only “issue” to date is a rare, vascular malformation in her foot. She is otherwise healthy, and is a happy, vibrant child!¬†

Kiarra – 16 months

Kiarra was diagnosed when her mom was 5 months pregnant through an amnio.¬† She was asked if she wanted to abort her, and says, “I’m¬†so glad I gave my butterfly a chance at life we love her with all our heart and soul!”

Lily Brigid – 15.5 months

Lily was diagnosed with¬†Turner Syndrome¬†at 16 weeks gestation by an amnio done after the discovery of a¬†cystic hygroma¬†at 12 weeks. She had coarctation of the aorta repair done when she was 2 days old, and came home when she was 12 days old. Now, Lily is the most amazing little girl. She is cute, funny, and has a great sense of humor already. She just learned how to walk today. She loves her brother, sister, mom, dad, and grandparents immensely and is always giving hugs and kisses. Lily is smart too- she is learning baby sign language and is doing great! Her mom says, “Every day I look at her and smile, knowing she is proof that miracles do happen.”

Kenzie Grace – 15 months

When Kenzie’s mom went for her 20 week check up, she was told that her baby had fluid behind her skull, fluid on the tops of her feet, and fluid in her heart. The doctor mentioned that these things were markers for a genetic disorder.¬† After essentially telling them that their daughter would likely not live, he said “because you live in NY state, I have to give you the option, would you like to terminate the pregnancy?” Kenzie’s mom says, “There was no hesitation in our definite NO!”¬† They went home to cry and to pray, and beg God to let their baby live. Psalm 27:13-14 became her verse for Kenzie “I am confident of this , I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the LIVING. Wait for the Lord, be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.”¬† Kenzie was born 3 weeks and after a week in the NICU it was finally determined that she had Turner Syndrome. Her heart only has a bicuspid valve, it had a small hole, but God healed that!¬†¬† At 15 months she is a peanut – never on the weight curve, and she had a slight gross motor delay, but after a few months of PT she is almost walking!¬† She says so many words and has such a spunky personality and is the biggest snuggler! Her mom says, “I have learned many things through all of this. your daughter has Turners Syndrome, this is not who she is. This will not define her, or you. Each of these girls is unique and special and beautiful.”

Emmry Adelynn Р16 months


Emmry was born on on the exact same day and year as my Lily – 9/16/2011 At birth her parents did not know she had Turner Syndrome and she was life flighted because she had a PDA and COA along¬† with an¬†omphalocele.¬† She wasn’t stable enough for open heart surgery and was unable to eat because of her omphalocele. She was put on ventilators, fats, and all sorts of heart medications to keep her stable and her valves working properly until she was able to get open heart surgery. At a week old she got her first surgery- her omphalocele repair – and within a few weeks she was able to breastfeed again.¬†¬†Weeks passed by and she was still too unstable for heart surgery- more testing was done, her heart had miraculously started working on it’s own without need for medication!¬†¬†She could finally come home! She has a wandering eye and¬†strabismus¬†and wears glasses.¬† She also has a horsehoe kidney, and of course is closely monitored because we never know if she’ll have more heart issues. She had little to no hearing in one ear at birth, but since having tubes and other therapy for her lymphedema and delayed development she is doing WONDERFUL! Her mother says, “I honestly believe she’s been placed in our care for a reason! She’s such a loving, funny, sweet and fierce character and I wouldn’t have her any other way! She’s our Emmry Adelynn- our miracle!”¬†

Ryann Michele Р6 


Ryann She survived a cystic hygroma and hydrops in utero!¬† She had a pretty rough start. She was in the NICU for 5 weeks. In addition to Turner Syndrome she has¬†microcephaly, hearing loss,¬†multicystic dysplastic kidney, and Cerebral Palsy. Ryann has far exeeded all of her goals. She never gives up and is a true fighter! She can bring a smile to anyone’s face!¬† Her mom says, “We love her to death and are so blessed to be her parents!”

Abigail Louise – 22 months

There was a large¬†Cystic Hygroma¬†discovered during Abby’s dating ultrasoundat 11 weeks, but Abby’s parents waited until she was born to do the genetictesting. Abby has¬†Classic Turner Syndrome¬†(45x). Abby is very fortunate to nothave any major health issues normally associated with Turner Syndrome. She is a tiny¬†little bundle of energy who loves her baby dolls, dress up and a good sword¬†fight with her big brothers who are 7 and 4.

Abbey Raelynn Р11 months 

Abbey¬†was diagnosed at 13 weeks in utero with a 6mm cystic hygroma. She defied the odds and was born at 39 weeks. She came out a fighter and that still hasn’t changed. She has a horseshoe kidney and is monitored by specialist for it. But the doctors say it will be the least of her worries. Abbey has a contagious smile that lights up a room. She is very friendly and loves being around people, especially her family. She is very sweet and loving, and she just learned how to blow kisses! Abbey has two siblings that adore her. She is small, but she likes to try and keep up with her older sister and brother. Abbey has blessed our lives and we are very grateful to have her as our daughter!

Emma T – 19 months

Emma is a 19 month old sweet girl. She is always happy and wanting to give a hug and kiss. She just loves her sister, Erika. She also loves all of her animals. She is an amazing girl that loves everyone and everything. She is always happy! She always lights up the room with her energy and sweetness. There is no one that does not love Emma after having met her.

Emma A – 13 months

Emma was diagnosed after birth due to puffy feet and turned up nails. She has no heart or kidney defects.¬† She’s short for her age.¬† She has a 6 year old sister and 11 year old brother, and she loves watching them dance. She is the happiest little girl and has a wonderful personality. She is constantly laughing.¬† She enjoy watching Mickey mouse club house.

Abigail – 2

Abigail was diagnosed with Turner Syndrome at 3 months old and now is a spunky almost 3 yr old with a huge personality and very little fear. Her mom says, “She keeps us on our toes. She is my miracle baby and I would not change a single thing about her.”¬† Looking at her you would never know anything was amiss, other than being petite.¬† Her mother says, “I will never let her diagnosis define her. She is beautiful, intelligent and a fighter!”

Ivy Р2.5  

Ivy¬†enjoys princesses, baby dolls,¬†Dora¬†and Ninja Turtles…..or anything her brother is doing. She’s currently taking growth hormones, but still a head below her peers, but she makes up for it with determination and spunk!¬†

Josslyn – 7

Josslyn was diagnosed at 2.  She enjoys learning Italian, doing Capoeira, throwing the football with dad, ice skating, learning to cook, playing video games with her siblings and being like any other 7yo girl.  She likes to help spread Awareness about Turner Syndrome and enjoys meeting new TS sisters
and helping others like her.


*****REPOST from my guest post last year for Turner’s Syndrome Awareness Month

from fatlittlelegs.com

Finally… A Girl!

Even from the beginning, Sajda was different; it started at my 19 week ultrasound where I found out that after 4 boys that I was finally having a girl! Tears of joy ran down my face only to change into tears of fear when I learned 5 mins later that something was not right with her heart. It would be two weeks later that we found out that Sajda had a congenital heart defect-Pulmonary Atresia with a Ventrical Septal Defect (a hole in her heart). 

The rest of the pregnancy was hard to say the least knowing what was coming. But we prepared as best we could for what was coming. On February 24, 2011 I went in for my induction at Vanderbilt hospital. I had to deliver there because they had a children’s hospital that Sajda would be transferred to and kept alive till her open heart surgery. The delivery went well and we even got to hold her before they rushed her over to the NICU. 

Welcome to the World!

The third difference was Sajda’s weight. She weighed 9lbs 6oz. She weighed 2lbs heavier than my other kids! I always say this was God’s doing because it was what she needed. This is because they ended up deciding that due to her size that she would end up having the complete repair when they did her surgery instead of two surgeries like they initially had planned on. I remember her surgeon telling me how pleased he was with the large size of her branch arteries. I also remember him informing me of the surgery and having to sign the hardest signature of my life to give permission for them to do her surgery. And most of all I remember the hardest day of my life, when they took my 5 day old baby girl to her open heart surgery. 

She ended up doing really well with her surgery. And little by little she improved every day. Each day a medicine was lowered, a tube removed. And every day we got closer to going home. Finally at 22 days old, she was finally healed enough and was discharged. They gave us meds for her and she was on a special formula due to her surgery. Ironically the day we went home was March 17th, St.Patrick‚Äôs day (She is part Irish ūüôā )

Sajda and mom in the hospital before her surgery

At one of her cardiology appointments later we found out her last difference. Our cardiologist had ordered a genetic test to find out if Sajda had a syndrome that caused her heart defect. This is important because it can also indicate other health issues that need to be dealt with. They expected to see DiGeorge’s syndrome because it usually has this congenital heart defect. Instead, a diagnosis of Turner’s syndrome came back. The cardiologist was surprised because this heart defect is usually not seen with it, yet she still felt strongly that the syndrome was responsible for Sajda’s heart defect. She also told us that Sajda had the Mosaic form of Turner’s syndrome, meaning that some of her chromosomes were missing the X and some were not. 

Finally home from the hospital!

So far the only issues we have run into is her heart defect, which we will need more surgeries down the road to replace the conduit they placed. Physically, she has the small lowset ears, shield chest, and some of her toes are upturned. 

But to us, she is the most beautiful girl in the world. She brings our family and all who meet her so much joy. And we are grateful God gave her to us just the way she is. 

Sajda – 1 year old TODAY!


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